Teacher gives tips for kindergarten prep

After 35 years of teaching kindergarten, I've seen a lot of first days of school. Although this is an exciting time for parents and children, it also can be emotional. Speaking as both a teacher and a parent, I know the transition to kindergarten can bring on many anxious moments. To help ensure a successful start to your child's academic career, here are some tips I've collected over the years that I'd like to share with you.

• Set up a schedule: Children benefit from the stability of predictable bedtimes and mealtimes. If they do not already have a specific bedtime, it's important to introduce one at least one month prior to the start of school. Ensuring children get enough sleep helps them concentrate, which means they will get more out of their lessons and be more adaptable to changes that may occur during the day.

We all know how important a healthy breakfast is in boosting student achievement, but mealtimes are also a great opportunity to find out more about your child's day. When your kindergartner returns home from school, why not sit down together and enjoy a nutritious snack. Specific questions, such as "What story did the teacher read today?" or "Who sat next to you at lunch?," will elicit a solid response. General questions such a, "What did you do at school today?" will guarantee that your child will respond, "Nothing!"

• Visualize the school day: Change can be difficult for anyone, but one way to make it less daunting is to visualize what the school day will be like. Walk or drive the route your child will take to school. Visit the school and play on the playground so he or she builds a sense of excitement about what is to come. If your school district permits, tour the facilities, or at the very least, visit the kindergarten classrooms. Talk with your child about what he or she will learn during the coming year, from math to music to reading and art. Building positive anticipation about the school year will help your child overcome any fears he or she might have.

• Talk to your child's teacher: As educators, we are your partners in ensuring that your child has a successful school career. We want to work with you to make sure that the transition is smooth and that your child gets the care and attention he or she needs. Please do not hesitate to call or to set up an appointment to discuss your child — even before school starts.

• Relax: This is as important for the parent as it is for the student. Remember that this is an exciting time for your child. Your positive attitude will make the transition much easier for your child as well as you.

Kindergarten is the first step in your child's education. Working together, parents and teachers can ensure that your kindergartner gets off to the "write" start. For more information on how you can make the most of your child's school career, visit www.njea.org.
Karen Ginty
Monmouth Beach
School District